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A Lively Demeanour Brings Out the Best in Infants

Infant educator Ms Shermaine Seet urges adults to retain their sense of playfulness to engage and bond with little ones.

Being imaginative, dramatic and expressive are essential ingredients of an infant educator’s toolkit, says Ms Shermaine Seet, Infant Lead Teacher at Sunflower Preschool @ Yishun. To embody these three qualities, educators and parents must tap into their own playful side.

“As babies start to explore the world around them, we need to capture their attention, engage their developing senses, and get them excited about learning new things,” explains Ms Seet. “Imaginative play uses various toys and activities to fuel their curiosity. Expressive language, such as varying our tone of voice and using animated gestures, helps infants understand and respond to what we are doing or saying.”

This approach helps Ms Seet build secure attachments with her young ones, creating a safe and nurturing environment for them to grow and thrive. Her efforts, honed through nearly 25 years’ experience in the early childhood sector, led to her clinching the ECDA Outstanding Infant Educator Award in 2024. 

In sensory play, infants enjoy hands-on experiences with materials and objects designed to stimulate their senses. Ms Seet gives an example involving coloured sand. “At first, the children were hesitant to touch the sand, but my excited tone and facial expressions gave them confidence to explore,” she says. “Beginning with the tips of their fingers, they eventually put their whole hands in the sand tray.” 

Ms Seet and three infants happily play together in a sensory activity using coloured sand. Ms Seet speaks enthusiastically and makes expressive faces, like smiling widely, to motivate infants to explore the texture of coloured sand.

To inject fun into caregiving routines like feeding, Ms Seet talks and sings to infants during mealtimes. Once they are ready to practise feeding themselves, she slowly introduces finger foods or plastic utensils. Verbal encouragement and exaggerated facial expressions provide positive reinforcement. “One mother was pleasantly surprised that her child was able to self-feed in preschool, as she was struggling with this at home,” says Ms Seet. “I shared my strategies with her so that she could replicate them.”

Ms Seet lovingly feeds a baby seated at a low table, showcasing a moment of bonding and nurturing care.  During mealtimes, Ms Seet uses engaging conversations and songs to entertain babies and hold their attention.

Open communication with parents is important, particularly during the transition period when an infant joins the centre. To reassure anxious parents, Ms Seet sends them daily photo updates of their little ones. Regular parent-teacher meetings foster a collaborative relationship and ensure consistent care. “There are no difficult parents, only parents in difficult situations,” adds Ms Seet, who always strives to put herself in their shoes. “I try to understand their concerns and challenges, and help them as best I can.” 

Ms Seet and colleagues sit across from parents in a parent-teacher meeting, sharing updates on their child’s progress. Regular parent-teacher meetings are a good way to update and reassure parents who may be anxious about being away from their babies.

How to Nurture a Curious Mind

Ms Seet’s tips for parents and caregivers at home:

  • Set aside quality time for your child every day. Even if it’s just 10 to 15 minutes, carve out a pocket of time to do crafts, read or simply play together.
  • Get rid of distractions. Put away handphones and screens to ensure the time together is spent meaningfully.
  • Communicate with body language. Energetic gestures and animated facial expressions keep children engaged and interested in what you say.

 

How to Nurture a Curious Mind

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